I’m shamelessly stealing that person idea, because I think it’s an interesting question.

Personally I’m into porn involving some forms of abuse, often it’s rape but it could also be just spanking or gaslight. Of course I’m not into that in real life. I know CNC is a thing, same with consensual SM and I could be into trying those one day, but I don’t see myself doing that with my husband anytime soon, and it’s different when it’s planned in advance, which is not always the case in the story presented in porn.

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    Much love! We’ve given up but at least we went to our first furry con.

    Which

    Was

    A time.

    A very good time.

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      9 days ago

      Much love! We’ve given up but at least we went to our first furry con.

      every loss comes with a win i suppose. Or every win comes with a loss, whatever way you please lol.

      glad to hear you enjoyed it though. Not much of a con guy myself, i prefer being far away from people, that’s why im here :)

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        9 days ago

        We made one single friend lawl

        We knew nobody else

        Everyone was sooooo friendly though.

        I will go again despite being insanely introverted.

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          We made one single friend lawl

          that’s nice, im sure i would also, but i just don’t really enjoy socializing much outside of an immediate group of people that know me.

          Everyone was sooooo friendly though.

          that’s the furry community when they weren’t busy yelling at people over twitter for something probably pretty stupid lol.

          I will go again despite being insanely introverted.

          hopefully you have a good time next time, best of luck!

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            2 days ago

            Much love!

            My partner and I have never been on Twitter, which I think is a good thing in retrospect hahahaha

            We also mostly stay within our immediate friend group, so I definitely am with you there. If we were more extroverted, we would have maybe met more people. But there was a single, very themed furry that we noticed, and he turned out to really want to hang out with us…. And was an incredibly cool person. And demolished my partner at beer pong like four times.

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              My partner and I have never been on Twitter, which I think is a good thing in retrospect hahahaha

              i was on twitter pre elon, it was still bad, but now the only thing that shows up in my timeline is religious posting, i don’t know if furries even use twitter anymore lmao.

              It’s so much worse now, but i had to make an account to see a stupid tweet just to verify that it was real. I love the internet.

              We also mostly stay within our immediate friend group, so I definitely am with you there. If we were more extroverted, we would have maybe met more people. But there was a single, very themed furry that we noticed

              it tends to be like doesn’t it. I imagine that neurotic people have a sort of “neurosis radar” i have a weirdly eerie ability to pick out the weird people in a room full of people. It’s good fun though, i like talking to weird people, they have a lot more interesting things to say than normies do lol.

              And was an incredibly cool person. And demolished my partner at beer pong like four times.

              he was just gaming you the entire time lol.