It’s really crazy. WIth women it takes a lot longer to get to the point of sexual intimacy. Guys I meet up and have sex with are shocked when I tell them what I go through with women. Maybe I’m just not finding the right women? lol
Lots of women are very dtf, but try to be cognizant of the fact that for us it’s also a safety issue. Better to spend a little bit of extra time getting to know someone before just cruising to a stranger’s house for cock worship. That kind of scenario can turn dangerous fast if you’re not careful. Cheers.
It really is always something we’re thinking about. Once when I was really young and naive, I was dumb enough to let a date drive me home. He went past the turn off for my house and didn’t say anything. I absolutely freaked out inside, convinced I was going to have something terrible happen to me. I hadn’t let anyone know where I was, or who I was with. I would have no chance of fighting back either, I’m not strong enough to fight off a guy who outweighs me by 50 lbs.
Fortunately he was just really fucked up in a different way. He felt the need to introduce me to his parents… he didn’t feel the need to give me a heads up about that though.
Ever since that day I always drive myself (or take a cab) and no one knows personal info like my phone number or address until I completely trust them.
It’s really crazy. WIth women it takes a lot longer to get to the point of sexual intimacy. Guys I meet up and have sex with are shocked when I tell them what I go through with women. Maybe I’m just not finding the right women? lol
Lots of women are very dtf, but try to be cognizant of the fact that for us it’s also a safety issue. Better to spend a little bit of extra time getting to know someone before just cruising to a stranger’s house for cock worship. That kind of scenario can turn dangerous fast if you’re not careful. Cheers.
Thank you for your perspective! That’s something important to keep in mind.
It really is always something we’re thinking about. Once when I was really young and naive, I was dumb enough to let a date drive me home. He went past the turn off for my house and didn’t say anything. I absolutely freaked out inside, convinced I was going to have something terrible happen to me. I hadn’t let anyone know where I was, or who I was with. I would have no chance of fighting back either, I’m not strong enough to fight off a guy who outweighs me by 50 lbs.
Fortunately he was just really fucked up in a different way. He felt the need to introduce me to his parents… he didn’t feel the need to give me a heads up about that though.
Ever since that day I always drive myself (or take a cab) and no one knows personal info like my phone number or address until I completely trust them.
Yeah that’s terrifying. If I were ever to go with anyone on a date by car, even as a guy, I wouldn’t get in their car, either!