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Due@lemmynsfw.com to Ask Lemmy NSFW@lemmynsfw.comEnglish · 2 months ago

What would you do if you found out that your mother or sister was a sex worker?

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What would you do if you found out that your mother or sister was a sex worker?

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Due@lemmynsfw.com to Ask Lemmy NSFW@lemmynsfw.comEnglish · 2 months ago
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  • borf@lemmynsfw.com
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    I would immediately post to as many Lemmy communities as possible asking what other people would do

    • Due@lemmynsfw.comOP
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      Then what?

      • RedditRefugee69@lemmynsfw.com
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        Then if anyone called me out, I would answer them with an aloof response so as not to give up that I’d been found out. For example, I could reply, “Then what?”

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          Then what?

          • Mycatiskai@lemmy.ca
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            Then I would continue with the “Dude Where’s my car?”-like references by replying “And then?”

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        deleted by creator

  • deezcashews@lemmynsfw.com
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    Wait for them to get stuck in the washing machine

    • ExhibiCat@lemmynsfw.com
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      Doesn’t that only work if you’re her STEPbro?

      • deezcashews@lemmynsfw.com
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        Not if you’re below the mason Dixon line

        • CoffeeJunkie@lemmy.cafe
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          Roll Tide

  • ℛ𝒶𝓋ℯ𝓃@pawb.social
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    Ask where they’re working so I don’t end up on the same shift

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    Make sure they were doing it safely and ask if they want tech support.

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      Idk, if you give tech support you would likely see more of your mom than you wanted. Unless they have questions I can answer without looking at their website or whatever.

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        Perks of the job

  • RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.com
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    Mother? Be very surprised because she is dead.

    Sister? She was a nude dancer when we were younger so maybe be less surprised, but she is pretty conservative now (not politically but in lifestyle) so would still be a surprise. Wouldn’t do anything, it’s her life, right?

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    I would be a LOT more careful about the communities I follow around here, lol. Need some heavy duty eye bleach if I stumble across the wrong thing

    Beyond that, it literally affects my life in no way whatsoever. More power to her/them.

  • Sagan_Wept@lemmynsfw.com
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    Support them because they are independent people with sexual autonomy and sex work is real work. If you having an issue with that, you need therapy.

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    Probably talk to them about online safety and anti doxxing measures.

  • K.K. ❤️@lemmynsfw.com
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    Make sure to avoid it at all costs but support them otherwise.

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    I suspect this is what OP was fishing for

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    Honestly, I’d be impressed with mom. She wasn’t the most attractive woman. For my sister, whatever as long as she’s safe and happy, though I might have some talks about making sure her risk profiles involving her actual career are understandable.

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    send a few bucks her way on patreon or koffee or whatever, because she needs it and I can spare the cash.

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    If that’s what they want to do then be cool with it.

    If I found out I’d probably not bring it up. If they want to tell me I’m fine to talk about it. As I am self employed as well I might even be able to help them with taxes and whatever. Sex work is all legal here but that of course means taxes haha.

  • AdditionalIsland@lemmynsfw.com
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    keep my mouth shut

  • Definetely weird.@lemmynsfw.com
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    Ask why. Try to understand. It may be shocking but it is not my life but it someone I love. So, respect first, respect second, respect last.

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