We’ve been getting new faces/bodies in the OC communities, and I’d like to hear from them here, too :-)

Share all the naughty fun you’ve been up to this week. That includes the new cock sleeve you wore, or the sleeve of Oreos that you polished off all by yourself!

  • lazyneet@programming.dev
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    5 months ago

    Not bad! Isn’t that two weekends in a row of sexy times?

    I’ve always been a bit apprehensive of the Grindr crowd. The weekly flings with different partners are not for me. I’d like to find one or two kinky people who would stay with me for a couple of years and keep the intensity up on weekdays as well. It won’t happen in the pueblo I’m stuck in now, and I think I give off loser vibes because I can’t dig myself out. At least people are giving candid accounts of the fun they’re having so we can all join in the discussion.

    • dazedandconfused@lemmynsfw.comOP
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      5 months ago

      Yeah it is. While I’m looking for that more regular partner I figure I may as well have some fun. Most of the guys I meet are well-educated professionals and we often have lovely chats before, during, and after our time together.

      From what I’ve seen, Grindr is very very different in different towns. A few months ago I was in Pasadena and it was terrible, then I was in Beverly Hills and it was dope. So I’m not surprised if you have a very different experience.

      Not everyone is fwb/relationship material, but y’know if someone cute wants to SMD, who am I to refuse? 😉 Even a little casual fun can help you get out of a rut - in some ways the pressure is off if you’re never going to see them again. My first Grindr hookup was just last year: a tourist who was staying in a nearby hotel. Kind of helped me flex some muscles I hadn’t used in a while (literally) 😏