• nerdydaddy@lemmynsfw.com
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    8 months ago

    This post was the first to be made. I think the other was made to get a rise out of “snowflakes” or whatever.

    The thing is that this post isn’t even shitty. The question is both fine and valid, and the OP hasn’t done anything terrible either. I just like pointing out things to improve communication.

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      8 months ago

      Ah, they’re showing as being posted at the same time for me, 2 hours ago, but as OP posted the first reply there, I thought this one was a response.

      I only meant that they weren’t being shitty in the way that they used females. I thought that they were using it to bounce off the other post. I think that both questions are a bit weird, but valid.

      I’m not always good at communicating online. I tend to forget that other people are not thinking the same thing as me :)

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        8 months ago

        That’s perfectly fine. I didn’t assume OP was shitty. I was pointing out the “females” thing because he would get a better response by using words that made women feel more comfortable.