If I am clear headed enough, yes I can feel it throbbing, the pulsing. I don’t literally feel the cum but think the cervix does, there is a feeling but it doesn’t feel to me like something gushing (husband is not a heavy load guy though, ex was but I don’t remember feeling it just the cleanup, and in between casual guys we use condoms).

If we get off at the same time, like if me cumming sets him off or vise versa, I cannot feel it at all, it’s overshadowed by the orgasm.