As long as the photo is appropriate (on topic) for the community, I have no issue with it. This site needs more content; now is not the time to start nitpicking about it.

I was going to write a long point-by-point refutation of your post, but in the end it boiled down to this:

Dude, blame capitalism for pushing people to sell their bodies for money. If you really care about the degradation of women in porn, devote your time and money to anti-capitalist causes, from universal health care to supporting living minimum wages rather than poverty-level minimum wages, from universal basic income to building guillotines for billionaires. Those things will do far more to help women than trying to blame individual porn stars for the degradation of women and making them somehow responsible for working for women’s equality. At best they are making content that they personally enjoy and at worst they are doing what they need to pay the bills. It’s capitalism that drives young women to get into porn who don’t really want to be there or don’t have the maturity to be there and as a result get taken advantage of.

And stop gatekeeping what people like in the bedroom. Some people like slow sensual lovemaking. Some people like to be hurt and degraded. Some people like whips, chains, and leather. Some people just want missionary with the lights off. It’s all good, and if you don’t like it don’t watch it.

Gladly!

There’s nothing I enjoy more than licking pussy. Sit on my face and I’m in heaven!

Duck lips is an immediate disqualification.

Thanks, I’ve discovered Sync works as well.

Oh great, thanks for the info!

Pretty sure that’s Spanish porn star Amarna Miller (in what looks like an early scene)

Well damn, I must be getting old, because I’m not picking any of them - they all look like babies to me.

Watched my wife masturbate with a vibrator a couple nights ago while I was locked in a chastity cage for locktober and only allowed to watch. It was very hot.

Liftoff works great for it.

I’ve seen such things referred to as chastity on the honor system or similar phrases. I think it’s fair to call it a kind of chastity, though if you prefer to refer to it differently, there’s certainly nothing wrong with that.

Don’t know if it was the same thread you’re referring to, but I posted here earlier that I found it came in waves when I was locked up long-term. And that’s just it - really horny for a couple of weeks, then it fades for a couple of weeks, then comes back after a while, and so forth. Of course, teasing helps keep the horniness going, especially during the downtimes, so if you do have a keyholder who is open to that, you should discuss it with them. That said, I’m about as far from asexual as you can get, so our experiences may differ, and maybe for you that feeling won’t come back after it dissipates. The only real way to know is to try it.

Emily Willis, no contest

I find it interesting that you picked possibly the best picture I’ve ever seen of Marina Sirtis and possibly the worst picture I’ve ever seen of Jeri Ryan. Two very different photos taken under very different conditions, with very different lighting, etc. Could OP be a little biased, perhaps?

In any case, Jeri Ryan for me, without a doubt.

I’ve always loved being scratched (and bitten, slapped, whipped, etc - I just love pain). My wife scratching her nails up and down my arms can send me to another world.

If you’re just looking to save a click, you can just go into your settings (click on your username in the top right and choose settings) and check the ‘auto-expand pictures’ box.

If you want to improve the overall experience, there are a number of options that I think will work with any browser you like. Personally, I use Firefox. I then add the Tampermonkey user scripting extension, with the LemmyTools and lemmy-keyboard-navigation scripts. Plus the ImagusMod extension which displays full images and videos on mouseovers.

FYI: The quote is not really from House of Cards. It’s often attributed to Oscar Wilde (which is who I thought originally said it), but it turns out that’s apocryphal and there’s no basis to it. The quote appeared in an interview with author Michael Cunningham in 1995, who only said he “thought” it was Oscar Wilde. So it may predate that, but actual authorship is unknown. Source: https://quoteinvestigator.com/2018/06/05/sex-power/

As far as the sentiment itself… I think it’s clever, and I do think there’s some amount of truth to it, but I don’t think it holds true 100% of the time. I think it’s a reasonable default position, but every so often humans have unexpected intentions.

Personally, I love the more niche fetishes, but I do agree with the other posters here that we probably need more vanilla and conversation-driven coms first to drive engagement.

As I think on it, a place for amateurs to post a la gonewild and its variants would probably be a draw.