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Cake day: July 24th, 2023

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  • I’m a married guy in a very sexually fulfilling relationship, so coming at this from the opposite side, but I sorta assume the reasons are similar.

    Sometimes you just want to cum, but sex can feel like more to think about or even more work than doing it yourself. When I have sex, it’s 50% about it feeling great to me, but 50% of me is also thinking about my wife, what to do next so she cums too, etc., and all that brings a type of self awareness that can enhance the experience, but that also makes it very different than sitting down and cranking one out alone lol. So sex is definitely better, but sometimes it’s not the experience I’m looking for. Sometimes one of us will also wanna watch porn of stuff that we may not actually do ourselves, which can also be more comfortable or fun alone.

    So basically, lots of reasons. I think it’s essentially a different activity and it just makes sense to sometimes be into one and other times into the other.